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The Cost of Freedom!

Is there a cost for freedom? Does one group suffer, in order for another to go free? What is “freedom” anyway? Can we actually do what we want, when we want, how we want? Or is freedom just a lie we tell ourselves as we fit into someone else’s mold of who we should be? Whatever freedom is or whatever we think it is, there is a price. For example, in the African American community, the price for today’s freedoms were paid by the generation before. ( I’m really conflicted about this example. It’s just something about desiring the greener grass on the other side, rather than making the brown grass that you have greener) I digress. Anyway another example would be our military, who sacrifice theirs lives, their family, their limbs, and their sanity so that can have the freedoms of being American.

I used to tell my Godson, ” everything that’s free, ain’t always free!” When you’re given something, there is always an expectation that you will something back. Whatever it may be. The next few days we will discuss Freedom and what it means. Please share your thoughts. Sometimes I’m way off in what I’m thinking.

Freedom Affirmations: My Mind is free and clear. I am free to think positive thoughts. I am free to live a prosperous and healthy life. I am free to explore all that my mind can explore. I have an open mind. I love and approve of myself. I am free to move with joy and ease! ALL IS WELL IN MY MIND. ALL IS WELL IN MY LIFE. ALL IS WELL IN MY WORLD. ALL IS WELL AND I AM SAFE. #IBlessMyWorldWithLove

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Take It Back!

Good Morning Most Awesome and Wonderful World Changers! Every negative comment I have made about myself, I take it back! All the jokes I make about myself so that others won’t, I take it back. All the times I looked at someone else and put them above me, I take it bad. Every time I dislike someone who reminds me of me, I take it back.

In this journey of loving myself. I have to learn to love every part of me, unconditionally. It’s hard at times. If you have lived a life of putting others above yourself and putting yourself down, it’s hard to say you love yourself and truly mean it. Even saying the word love is kinda iffy. Because I say I love to others and I put them above me. So love only comes when someone needs me. Which is all discombobulated . . . But little by little and Day by Day start taking back those negative things you say to yourself and watch your life get better!!! I take back every negative comments I have said about myself and replace it with I love you more each day.

Daily Affirmations: Today is a magnificent day. I love me more than anything else. It’s okay to be in love with me. This love is not my ego or vanity or pride. It is true and unconditional love for me. I am open and receptive to only good. I live in a safe and secure world. ALL IS WELL IN MY CLASSROOM. ALL IS WELL IN MY SCHOOL. ALL IS WELL IN MY WORLD. ALL IS WELL AND I AM SAFE. #IBlessMySchoolWithLove #IBlessMyWorldWithLove

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Am I Making A Difference?

Good Morning Most Awesome and Wonderful World Changers! In everything I do, I always ask myself; Am I making a difference in someone’s life? Am I making a difference in my life? With teaching, sometimes it’s hard to tell. Even in ministry, it’s hard to tell. You keeping teaching the same thing over and over and the people/ kids keep making the same mistakes. Then one day the child/ person seems to self-correct and make good choices on their own. That’s give you enough to keep striving and teaching.

But I’m not satisfied with those small victories, I want to start seeing greater numbers being affected. I want to reach the world! Start children at an early age learning to choose right. It will carry with them as they get older. I hear stories from parents all over, how Simon the Self Control Seal helped their children make right choices. That has given me the strength to keep striving and pushing!

Daily Affirmations: Today is an Awesome day. I choose to feel good about myself. I am creating a wonderful world. People are always helpful. Life is joyful and easy. I am healthy, wealthy, comfortable, whole, and complete and I love myself. ALL IS WELL IN MY CLASSROOM. ALL IS WELL IN MY SCHOOL. ALL IS WELL IN MY WORLD. ALL IS WELL AND I AM SAFE. #IBlessMySchoolWithLove #IBlessMyWorldWithLove

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The Gig is Up! Just Say Thank You!

Good Morning Y’all! There’s a song by the Williams Brothers that says, “I’m just a nobody trying to tell everybody about somebody who can save anybody.” That’s the way we were taught to think in church. “Don’t think more highly of yourself than you ought.” But it doesn’t say put yourself down or be a nobody.But so many people resonate with thinking humility means to put yourself down. When someone sings well and you compliment them, they say “It’s all Him and not me.” I say the gig is up! Just say thank you and go on! It’s good to give thanks unto God but when someone compliments you on what they already know God has given you, it is a slap in the face for you to say “It wasn’t me”. As to say that you don’t know how to use what God has blessed you with. He has to come and take over because you’re not a good steward of your talent. I say, the gig is up! Just say thank you. It’s time to stop putting yourself down and stand in your own power! I will always be SOMEBODY telling everybody about the power within us given by God that can change you and you alone! Change the way you think and believe, you will change your life! Others can only be changed when they change their thinking as well, but that’s not your work. #elevateyourmind

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Join The Dream of Love

Hello most Awesome and Wonderful World Changers!!!! I hope you are enjoying your MLK day!!! I was just thinking about the civil rights movement and all the work Dr. King did. I then realized that everyone is fighting for the right to be loved and to love themselves without having worry about if others approve. I believe the fight was for self approval. To approve of yourself makes it easy to approve of others. Everybody knows that when you hate someone, you are really hating that part of yourself that is just like that person you hate. Loving and approving yourself and all parts of yourself even the parts that  you don’t like will help us love others. Churches and preachers please stop preaching hate and start preaching love and acceptance and self-approval! That’s the dream I feel Dr. King spoke of. We are all created equal and that means we all need to learn to love ourselves and learn to love others even the seemingly unlovable !

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Revisit- Revise- Refresh Your Reasoning!!!!

Good Morning Most Awesome and Reflective World Changers! I normally don’t like to dwell in the past but sometimes I think we should take time to revisit and revise some of our thinking. There are times that in my mind I had it all together, but my life still wasn’t working well. I had to stop and think about the reasons why I made certain decisions and how they affected my life. Sometimes this is necessary to move forward! Revisit- Revise – Refresh-Your Reasoning . 

Daily Affirmations: Today is an Amazing Day! I am on an joyful journey of self evolution! I love and accept myself just as I am! My life is divinely guided! I move with joy and Ease. Every experience is an opportunity to learn and grow. ALL IS WELL IN MY CLASSROOM! ALL IS WELL IN MY SCHOOL! ALL IS WELL IN MY WORLD! ALL IS WELL AND I AM SAFE! #IBlessMySchoolWithLove

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On the Brink of a New Mindset

Good Morning Most Awesome and Wonderful World Changers!! While was in church yesterday, something kept screaming, “It’s All In the Mind”. I feel like everything that we face is God’s way of trying to get us to change our mindset. The mindset of a victim is very similar to the mindset of a victor. The only difference is the way the see things.For the victor, problems are seen as opportunities. While for the victim, problems are seen as things being “done to me”. I’m going to continue to explore this for the next few weeks. I feel like even the stories where people say God was angry and attacked them, came from the mindset of the victim. We’ll have to explore that together. However, let’s start today knowing that we win! We were born to win!

Daily Affirmations: Today is an Amazing Day! I am a Winner! I am Free! I am the Head! I am Above! I am the Lender! I am Victorious! Life brings me Joy! I love and approve of myself! ALL IS WELL IN MY CLASSROOM! ALL IS WELL IN MY SCHOOL! ALL IS WELL IN MY WORLD! ALL IS WELL AND i AM SAFE! #IBlessMySchoolWithLove

 

 

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Just Saying. . .

If you pray to God for an answer and the answer given is not based in love, you probably need to go Β back pray again. God can’t step outside of love. God is love. Causing hurt to others is not love. People talk about blessings and curses coming out of the same mouth but the cuss words we use now weren’t even in existence when the bible was written. They didn’t even speak English. To me this scripture refers to love and hate coming out our mouths. The bible also talks about being lukewarm . It says the God would rather us be Hot or Cold. So I’m gongho for LOVE! Lord let me an instrument of your LOVE!

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These are some the truest word ever penned!

Jordan McQueenRemember when just meeting up with your friends was enough? When we didn’t obsess over digital proof of a friendship and having a good time. Remember when silence was enough? When we didn’t have to fill that void of nothing with blinking notifications because the silence was too loud. Remember when a conversation was enough? When weΒ didn’t…

via Remember When People WereΒ Enough β€” Thought Catalog

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Sinking

I have to pull over. I was driving and I started thinking of all the things that seem to be going wrong. I know that I can create the environment I want by thinking thoughts of joy and love and peace Β by thinking thoughts of joy and love and peace. However an overwhelming sadness and feeling of depression came over me. Reminding me that this is the way things are for you Kyri. Get over it. You will always give and give and give yourself til you’ve given out and nothing will come back to you. You will always be one paycheck away from being homeless. You will always separated from who you truly are. You never develop the type of deep friendships and relationships you desire. Your bank account will always be in the negative. This is your life. . . Things will not workout for you no matter how close you get.

I wish I could say I closed my eyes and came with an affirmation that made me feel better but I can’t. That’s why I had too pull over. My wouldn’t let me. It kept saying Kyri your life hasn’t changed a bit you are still right where you don’t want to be. You’re making a little more money your mindset is still the same. You are still scared and timid. You are still taking the safe way out, too scared to take a chance, still going with the path of lease resistance, still starting things and never finishing. I was having trouble seeing as I felt chest pains. So had to pull over.

Lesson: All the affirmations in the world won’t help if you are not going within your mind to learn from Β your thoughts.

Instead of fighting these thoughts, I decided to go on and have them. It’s an ugly, unhappy place to be but I feel like I needed this today. The bible says think soberly, so I realize that I am not where I thought I was. However, I do see the growth because before I would’ve shut down laid over bed and cried and cried. But I don’t like crying. I feel like exploring deeper into my thoughts and why in the last 16 years of my life, I have repeated the 2001 over and over and over again? What can do to break the cycle? I moved to Β Louisville but it seems I’m still in the cycle the track just got bigger. I have a lot of work to do. Β Changing your thoughts is not easy but today I’m up for the challenge!